我是女王.（台）女王.rar

无论看不看，我从小就知道男人都是狗
女人漂亮自然好，不漂亮的必然结果是更难吸引下半身思考的动物，所以不漂亮的女人需要多花点时间去做驯兽师，这只能说她会活得累一点，而不是精彩一点
不漂亮的女人，无论她做什么，狗狗们都不会说好，难道有狗会喜欢一件躺在“一个怀抱里可爱地装傻”的猪扒吗？它们会说：“做作！发骚！浪！”
你只要不漂亮，在男人眼里不漂亮，这些狗是无论如何都不能认同你的，这就是男人的天性。
幸运的是，大多数女人都知道这一点，无论漂亮不漂亮

Your words suggest the fact that you have a tough spirit, that's quite different from me. My spirit is catastrophically fragile.
How it can be seen, well, you said the author of this book is indeed in felicity, and if yourself stood at a similar situation, you would still find the purpose of your life, which would probably release all your spiritual burden and give you the reason to strive for your life, probably with felicity I guess.
This tough spirit of your kind, like the tenet of special troop soldiers, or an Assassin's Creed, asks no unnecessary spiritual glee, or even has no need to maintain an organic function to percept and sense and enjoy any spiritual glee.
That's the reason why someone like you with such tough spirit, if lost some chances to attain any joy in his or her life, would still lead the life of thriving.
Although your spirit's toughness doesn't have necessity to be tested and proven, at least you dare to step forward that some yearnings are not vital to you, and some tragedies in intersexual relationship are not unbearable to you. At least you dare to think in this way.
More specifically, if a female with such tough spirit couldn't find her true love, which must bring her enthusiasm, palpitation (probably with a little fear and pain : ), warmth like what you said, and which misses none of all the ingredient but stirs the whole recipe into dulcet serenades, she would not be stuck by the agony bequeathed by that she couldn't reach her fairy yearning, instead she would leave them behind and swerve towards other directions and try to seek console from sth. else.
And another aspect, if a male with such tough spirit couldn't find his supreme spiritual glee, this says he doesn't have the ability to fascinate the girl who has enthralled himself, he would still be glad of getting down to finding an opportunity to struggle for a plain but peaceful life. If he receives stigmatization, either it is of substantial or conceptual, he would undertake it with his body but circumvent in his spirit. Leave unnecessary spiritual concern rot, and do the role part of himself well, even if it's distained, substantially or conceptually.
Because according to the tenet of special troop soldiers or an Assassin's Creed, it makes no sense to ask unnecessary spiritual joy, it proposes if some kinds of stupid joy really be useful to rise the efficiency of tasks in your life, let it rest upon you, but if another kind of aristocratic joy be nothing more than of a joy's use, and be luxurious to maintain, just don't bother with it.

I understand this kind of tough spirit, I can imagine what it may feels like. But in my opinion, they are not really happy in the bowel of their hearts. But I respect them, just like I adore special troop soldiers and Assassins with their creeds ：)

你是说的很现实 你所表达的意思我也都能理解

但是 我们本身表达的论点 是不同的

比如 其实现在大部分人连爱情到底是什么东西都没搞明白 是激情的时刻 还是平淡的温暖 还是血浓于水的相守 或者是三者合一 才是爱情真正的面目 每个人心中都各有自己的定论

所以有不同的理解 就有不同的需求 有些人虽然不能让你激情澎湃 但却能让你感觉到温暖的美好 不能就说爱情只属于激情的火花 只属于年少懵懂时对异性的最初吸引

人的心智随着年龄成长 对爱情的领悟也会成长 看重的品质也会相对变化

对于美 谁都喜欢 问题是 如果单单是美 的外表 有多少意义？

生活中的乐趣难道就是 每天看着一个美丽的尤物 也会视觉疲劳的

那些词吧 也不能说是调侃之类 只是些总结名词而已 难道只有爱上王子公主才算是爱情？ 难道爱情只蕴含肉欲的吸引？除此之外心灵 各方面的相知 沟通 全不算数吗？ 也许男人是这样 但是女人不是这样 所以在爱情面前男女之间是永恒的不对等的

我曾对朋友说 如果怪物史莱克 是个女的 救了王子 王子会感恩但诀不可能会爱上她 好像还真没类似这样的童话故事 出现过

可是公主 却为了史莱克 放弃了美貌 变成了母怪物 这就是女人 对于爱情的诠释

所以我理解你对 男人立场上爱情观的解剖 ：
女人如果有美貌 再有智慧能力 更好 但是女人有了一切 但没有美貌还是白说

但是作为女人 美貌是天生 除非去整容 难道说因为相貌不好就 放弃一切其他品质的追求吗？
爱情也不是人生活的全部理由 人生除了爱情 还有很多值得追寻的东西

心灵的幸福 才是真正的幸福 而你所谓的爱情是最粗浅的物种本能的吸引

再者 如果有了爱情 但是又怕失去爱情 整日战战兢兢 疑神疑鬼 患得患失 恋爱时怕男人丢了 结婚时怕男人出轨 整天为对付男人的本能 而使劲浑身解数 有意义吗？这样的人生？（这话我是对于那些好女人而已，现在海藻类的太多了 我这里全部忽略这类女人）

所以我认为作者绝对是幸福的 至少在事业上的成就感是幸福之一 毕竟除了书吧

女人的幸福很多种 就算因为难看点 没有爱情 也是可以通过自己的努力取得 另一类幸福

所以我们对于人性 对于现实的理解并没有冲突 所不同的是 你把女人的成功和幸福 全都归结在爱情 和男人身上 而相貌是打开男人爱情之门的唯一必需的条件 所以你把相貌和女人的幸福挂了等钩

而我认为 爱情只是女人幸福的一种诠释方式 而已 同样也包括对男人而言